Boys and Men- Same person yet Poles apart!!

To all the single-ready-to-mingle ladies out there, is there any way you can differentiate a boy from a man? Is this question even relevant in today’s world? Well, yes, it is. If you are looking for a serious relationship, it is a high priority criterion.

Boys are carefree, impatient creatures without a damn in the world. Men are responsible and mature and patient. College dudes think themselves the kings of the world but actually men are the rulers. When a boy gets a job and starts earning for himself and family, he calls himself a man. That means if you go out with a boy he will pay off the bills from his father’s pocket but a man will pay from his own pocket. And girls like it more when that happens, isn’t it?

You can easily make out the hair line difference, girls.  A man will be courteous, gentle and polite. He may consider you his friend but will always treat you so specially. Men take you out on lunch or dinner, boys ask you for a movie. Guys think it is cool to treat their girls as friends. They will have fun and hang out but until they behave maturely they won’t become their ladies’ man. Anger management is something only a gentleman is capable of. He never abuses his woman. Boys show their anger out front on their girlfriends. They are known to abuse their girlfriends more than often nowadays. Under hard situations, a man is patient and stable and faces problems calmly. Boys just crumble under pressure.

Boys feel they are adventurous, fun loving, full of hot blood and high adrenaline rush. Men have passed those phases and turned each opportunity into gold. Boys dream, men find a way to live those dreams. Whom would you like to walk with in a high class restaurant, a boy in t-shirt or a man in a tuxedo with a rose in his hand? Now, isn’t that something. Even proms have tuxedos as dress code, for crying out loud! Men are always better to date than boys. Those tall handsome hunks in formals look so much more tempting and attractive than cool dudes in casuals.

A man knows exactly how to impress and convince his lady. He knows exactly how to win her heart or make up for a mistake. Yes, they may keep forgetting silly dates, but they make it up to you in a very romantic and breathtaking manner. Tell me your heart doesn’t a skip a beat or two when he kneels down in front of you with a gift saying sorry, or when he sings a song for you in front of his friends to surprise you and to make you smile. It feels all the more special because he has so busy a schedule and still he actually finds time to show that he cares about you. He can put his feet down and stand on his point. He would be dictated, but can influence his lady also. Guys may do something insanely crazy to get your attention. But they certainly fuss about a lot to find a proper gift for a girl if they are in a new relation. And they would do anything you want just to keep you in a relation.

When a man is genuinely interested in you he will ask you to marry him. Boys generally are scared of the word commitment. Yes, there are certain guys who actually settle down with their long term girlfriends but nowadays such cases are really rare. But boys grow up and out of their boyish nature for their love for you. Boys grow up to be men for their love. A lady can do that to a guy. Yes, girl, you have the power.