Lifebites...

A hot cup of tea.... have you ever thought a simple cup of tea might change your entire life? The whole future of the nation can be virtually changed over a few cups of tea. Big political issues can be resolved and long unsettled rows can be settled. Huge cultural differences can be figured and a mutual understanding can be achieved between two families who are dead against each other. Even the future of two love birds can be written in golden words, by their families over a cup of tea and, well, some snacks! All this happens just over a cup of tea!! Yes, these things happen on a daily basis in every neighborhood of any Indian town or city. Almost all instances, except I guess, family problems and love marriages! They might need a little more than just tea. It’s a common notion among us, whenever we come across some problem which we need to discuss with our friends we say, “Let’s talk over tea!”  Why only problems, any secret gossip, any help from a friend, any advice on rela...

Shifting from one apartment to another is a big trouble; both for your pocket and of course your health. It is like leaving a part life in this place and taking everything to some other place to start from scratch. But this shifting can be such a pain to your heart I never had an idea!!! Missing your nosy neighbors and your good friends may not matter much. But when you unfold and unpack all those stuff which you had kept ducked away in some dark corner as you never wanted to see them again yet didn't have the guts to dispose them off, every small painful moment comes back to you all at once. You revisit the part of yourself you never wanted to see again. Everything is unleashed and you are in hell all over again!! The moment, when you believe you have moved on, is the moment when a small spark crosses your sight and you are back to square one. It is said small moments make big memories. Yes they do. But what is hidden in this quote is that those memories of small m...

To all the single-ready-to-mingle ladies out there, is there any way you can differentiate a boy from a man? Is this question even relevant in today’s world? Well, yes, it is. If you are looking for a serious relationship, it is a high priority criterion. Boys are carefree, impatient creatures without a damn in the world. Men are responsible and mature and patient. College dudes think themselves the kings of the world but actually men are the rulers. When a boy gets a job and starts earning for himself and family, he calls himself a man. That means if you go out with a boy he will pay off the bills from his father’s pocket but a man will pay from his own pocket. And girls like it more when that happens, isn’t it? You can easily make out the hair line difference, girls.  A man will be courteous, gentle and polite. He may consider you his friend but will always treat you so specially. Men take you out on lunch or dinner, boys ask you for a movie. Guys think it is cool to tr...